Summer Break: Time to Begin!

Now it is time to put the family plan into action! You have decided what you want, met with the children, and made your family plan, the next step is to put it all into action.

It is best to just do it. Begin the first day of your break. If it has already started, begin now. It is easy to say, "We had a late (bad, or whatever) start, so we will begin tomorrow." You know about tomorrow, it never comes. Modify and begin where you are. Tomorrow can be better. It may take a few days. If it does, it does. But if you keep procrastinating, you may not do it and you won't receive your desired benefits. Just do it now!

A key to being successful in most anything is being consistent. The same is true in this situation. Hold to the guidelines or rules that you have established. When rewards are earned and deserved, be sure to reward. Immediate rewards are most effective, so reward as soon as possible. The same is true with negative consequences. If the guidelines are not being followed, follow through with what you said would be the consequence. When consequences are consistent, children know what is expected of them and what to expect. It gives them security and structure in their lives. When consequences aren't consistent, children can become confused as to what the rules are. They may test you to see if you mean what you say, but when you do, they know you are there for them. Be consistent.

As I said in the last post, evaluate periodically. Problem-solve and make alterations as seems wise. Praise and reward for the things that have gone well. You are on your way.

Have a great summer adventure!